There are also some signs that share certain basic motivations such as a sense of security, the need for excitement, or intellectual stimulation.” From Shea and Brownstone, I gleaned a ton of insights about how each sign (and the locations of its major planets) function in dating and relationships.Knowing your—and your partner’s, if you want to be thorough—natural strengths, weaknesses, needs, and insecurities can help make us all a little less blind in the search for love.Geminis hate to be bored, so plan multiple activities to keep the date moving along. Go with it and turn a difference of opinion into a lively, flirtatious exchange." Compatible with: Pisces, Scorpio, Taurus, Capricorn, and some other Cancers Incompatible with: Aries, Libra, some Gemini, some Cancers Strengths: "Cancers are loving, affectionate partners who will do just about anything for someone they love," says Shea.Ask lots of questions and get them to share their opinions and ideas," suggests Shea. Tell stories, discuss books, movies, or whatever it takes to hold their interest. "They will be a champion, confidant and safe haven for their partner.You don’t necessarily need to spend a lot of money, but it should appear as if you thoughtfully planned things.
Additionally, they're learning to open up emotionally and not always make decisions from a practical standpoint, but from their heart." Advice for Dating One: "Spoil them.
Compliment them and ask questions about their life.
Don’t be afraid to challenge them with something like a game of darts or pool.
If you do a group thing, smaller groups are better. Tauri will feel more comfortable with low-key, traditional dating activities.
You can still make it fun and add some spontaneity, but don’t push them to try something they’re hesitant about doing—that’s not likely to go over well." Compatible with: Libra, Aquarius, Sagittarius, Aries, and some Gemini Incompatible with: Virgo, Pisces, some Gemini, some Tauri Strengths: "Geminis keep things interesting and their flexibility makes it easy to go with the flow when life brings unexpected challenges," says Shea.“It’s important to take into account the moon sign, Venus, and Mars positions,” says astrologer Diana Brownstone.