Also, there were levels of honesty unlike anything I've experienced even with best friends." Fred gave us a wealth of information over several interviews.
Open, upbeat and extremely handsome, he revealed the enormous love and respect he shared with his former partner and now shares with his current partner.
Recently, this woman underwent major surgery and it was her ex-boyfriend Fred, not the woman's current older boyfriend, who was by her side.
Gretchen, now 44, was involved with a man of 51 and he was simply too busy with work and personal commitments to be available when she really needed him.
Resolutely, Fred abandoned the "young woman trial period." He knew he liked older women and that was his standard. It's adventurous for both of us, because it's a whole new exciting journey.
Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do." "My first relationship with an older woman—I was 20 and she was 36—lasted two and a half years.
I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. I don't have time for that behavior—that's why I like mature women." "She was very beautiful and caring and we had similar interests.
She offered me the opportunity to see another perspective on a lot of different issues. She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy.
After his relationship with Gretchen ended, Fred tried dating girls in their early twenties. After a year or so of taking a "time-out," Fred met Lynne. Fred's respect and appreciation of older women was clear when he spoke: "The way mature women carry themselves shows they know who they are. They are all-around much more attractive to me."Also, they are much more experienced with life.We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood.We are both hard-working with many hobbies in common.I mean, older women think differently on certain issues and they've got more experience. Not that I was doing it for her, but just being with her."—Art, 27 "Emotional stability. There have been nothing but positives in my relationships with two older women.
They were able to see things in me that I could not see in myself.Not only is she beautiful, but she has a wonderful sense of humor and is very giving.